If your husband of 18 years suddenly came into some money, not enough to grow a beard, change his name & leave the country, but still quite a bit. He goes & opens his very own personal savings account. He does deposit some into our joint account so that some bills could be paid. Why? What? We have always shared everything. I got a bit of money afew years ago. Never once did I think of keeping it to myself to where he couldn't touch it. What is he thinking? Yes I said something. He just doesn't know what he wants to do yet. That doesn't cut it. I am very hurt over this. I feel, no I don't know what I feel. I dont' understand.