And my wife and I are split up. 2 weeks ago she says she wants a divorce and walked out the door. 6 days later she comes to see the kids and says she doesn't want a divorce, she wants to go to counseling.
She is staying with a friend (or so she says).
My issue is that with all the crap going on between us, all the added stress that she has dumped on me that I am now deathly afraid of going under the knife.
She is pleading with me to get the surgery done still and she wants to be there and then help me during my 4-6 weeks of recovery.
I've lived with it for this long, what's another few months til we either split for good or work it out?