OK my spinie friends....I have a problem; well actually more of a dilema. My boyfriend is ready to commit to me and my children <:P :X <:P but if we LEGALLY marry at this time, I will lose my public assistance benifits. And for religious reasons, just shacking up is out of the question for him. We are willing to make things legal when finances permit, but at this time, things are pretty dire for me where I am now, and yet I DO NOT/CAN NOT allow myself or my kids to become a burden on him.....
Any ideas on a type of church/pastor willing to do a commitment ceromony binding us in the eyes of god just not legally yet?