As you may know I have been trying to get by to my October 3rd 15th anniv renewal ceremony and also my job transfer on October 1. As part of this I had a ESI a month ago...it lasted two weeks, got put on neurotin, upped pain meds and changed MR when the pain came back with a vengence and I couldn't walk. Got another ESI even though PM guy said he didn't really think it was a good idea. That was last Tuesday and while it didn't really give me much relief..it really stopped working this Saturday and I can't walk again.
I was hoping taking a few days off would make it so I could walk on Sunday which is when the ceremony was to happen. I was worried about standing at the alter..if I could walk down the aisle but didn't tell anyone my fear. Well this morning my husband tells me that my mother and him talked last night and that they think we should postpone the wedding. Then I get an email from my mom that she called xyz to handle things including my father in Florida. Then she tells me that they all think I should get a second opinion for the surgery when I am perfectly happy with my surgeon and that my father will help me pay if necessary (which I am irriated at)..this is because the guy they want me to get a second opinion with doesn't take our insurance.
I am so F*ing upset and feel like they have taken all power away from me. Why can't they trust my judgement?