I am told I need surgery very soon, will find out Thursday at the surgeon appt.I have a 2 year old and 4 year old. They are very active boys and I am freaking out about how I am going to take care of them post-surgery! They weigh 40 and 50 pounds apiece.My family says they will help, but they already proved themselves unreliable after I had gallbladder surgery a few months ago.
I wonder if I will even be able to change a diaper, from what I have read about recovery. My husband is only able to take off 5 days from work. At this point I wonder if I should try to get a live-in caregiver or nanny. But I have no idea how I could afford one. Anyone else out there been in this situation, and if so how did you manage?