The title says it all. Maybe not all. I'm not bitter, I completely understand why and how this can happen. I did not come on here so everyone could say what a b!#ch. I really do not blame her. When we first started seeing each other I was having almost no issues as far as my spin goes. So she has the reference of how much we once did together to compare to the last year where I have not been up to much at all. I work full time, I'm a single dad of three, so after pulling it together as best I can for those responsibilities I'm pretty much wiped out. We talked last night about it. I'm not really sure where we stand. She basically said we'll wait till after your sugery is over and see about starting over. I'm not sure if I want to start over, and I told her that. She said I need to think about it between now and then. I guess I have some thinking to do.