I'm a 16 year old girl soon to be 17. 3 years ago I experienced lower back pain I just ignored it because I thought that it's impossible for a 14 year old to have any spine problem, it was on and off kind of pain but now it's impossible to ignore. 3 weeks ago a sudden jolt in my upper back startled me I couldn't move or even breath it hurt too much. And now I can't even walk straight my legs hurt most of the time and I can't sit or stand or even lay down without feeling numbness in both of my legs. I can't even sneeze or cough without feeling pain in my upper/middle back, I can't even left anything without feeling pain in my lower back, if I bend down I can't get up straight. I just feel like I'm too young for this kind of pain, I've been to the ER and I was told to go to a Neurosurgeon but the word surgeon freaks me out. So now I'm asking for advice what should I do? Medicine doesn't help and heat and ice don't work too.