When you first become a member on Spine-Health, one of the first things you want to do is express the pain and discomfort you have with your spinal condition. We all understand that, we have all been there.
But we have thousands of members who have had situations better or worse than yours. So when creating your first thread, I would advice you not to use words such as
- This is the end
- I have pain levels of 1000
- No one else has had my pain
- My life is over
- No one listens
Instead introduce yourself as we layout in our FAQ
- Your name
- Your condition and how long have you had it
- How did this happen? Accident, Trauma, unknown?
- What doctors have you seen?
- What diagnostic tests have you had and what are their results
- What treatments have you had so far
- What medications are you currently on, what have you used in the past
- What makes your pain more intense, and on the flip side, what can help with your pain
Giving us that type of information is so useful when other members try to respond to answer your questions or provide help
This site is composed of many different types of members, I like to classify them as
- New members, first time on this site, looking for information
- Been here a while, have had problems and have not been all that happy with their treatment
- Those that have been here a while, and have many good success stories to talk about
- Those that are just unhappy. There are hurting in pain and nothing is being done for them from their eyes
- Those that have gotten past all the problems and are learning how to live day by day
- Those that have been here, had everything done, understand what it takes to survive
- Those like myself and my moderator team, who have been there, still hurting, but are trying to help others
We tend to have many that will give you the soft easy type of love when it comes to your problems, then we will also have those that will offer tough love.
One thing to always remember, once you register here and start creating threads, you have become a Spiney
I will leave the definition of that out for now, you will soon come to realize what it means.
Ron DiLauro Spine-Health System Administrator I am not a medical professional. I comment on personal experiences