I don't really know where to turn anymore? I really try hard to not have a poor me attitude, but it is really difficult. I am still battling through recovery from my direct pars repair surgery after having been bed ridden 3.5 months prior to surgery and an additional 6 weeks after surgery. I have recently found out that my husband had cheated on me 2 weeks after surgery and it had been steadily continuing until I found out. It is really difficult for me to try to concentrate on getting better while having marital issues also. Also, my husband did not really assist in helping take care of me while I was trying to receive diagnosis for the 3.5 months. All this is really hard to deal with. I just want to get better so that I can move on. Most likely divorce is in my future since I still see no change in him.
Have others been through this while dealing with the long road of back surgery and recovery?
Bilateral pars defect L5