11 months from having back surgery (l4-l5-l5-s1) decompressed. Since then i have been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction, neurogenic bladder (holding 450cc before i feel the urge to use bathroom) as well as not being able to feel the right side of my penis, buttocks and three toes on my right side. Is this common after surgery? This has been really depressing!!! Im also self catheterizing 3 times a day just to void and taking a laxative every other day so i wont be compacted and backed up (not on ANY NARCOTICS) ive never had these problems before my surgery. I FEEL LOST and dont know what to do.