This is very hard for me to say, but I'm so desperate and in so much pain I can't take it anymore and I need advice. I am a 29 year old male, and I've been performing self-felatio since I was a young teenager. In my mind, I don't think its any different from using your hand, its just masturbation and if you are capable of it I'm sure more people would do it, but it is my shame. I've always been flexible, I've never had any pain from performing this feat, but its gotten more difficult as I got older. Eventually one day, I threw my legs back down and the pain was instantaneous, the spasms started immediately, and it never went away. Nearly a year later, the pain has gotten worse, I have spasms in my butt, thighs, calves, and needle like sensations in my feet.
So embarassed and ashamed have I been that I haven't been able to tell any doctor what caused the accident. I've said that the pain came on gradually, or I strained it one or two good times exercising or doing some mundane task. My inability to admit my accident has surely put a crutch in my healthcare, but I was expecting the MRI or the CT scan with contrast would show SOMETHING. They showed a completely normal spine. I had a nerve conduction study done in my right leg that I partially failed, and that doctor told me she thought I had a pinched nerved near my L3-L4, but again, nothing visually, so the surgeon will not operate on me. I can barely sit in a chair without having severe pain in my lower back and spasms, pins, and needles in my legs in feet. Medical bills are piling, my job is at risk and I don't know what to do. I'm seeing pain management and going to a chiropractor soon.
Does anyone have any insight into what is happening with my back, will I be this way for the rest of my life? ****************************************************************************************************** Welcome to Spine-Health
One of the most important things that members can do is to provide the rest of the community with as much information about themselves as possible. It is so very difficult for anyone to respond when we do not have enough information to go on. This is not meant to indicate that you are doing anything wrong or violated any rule, we are just trying to be pro-active and get the information upfront so that people can start responding and your thread is more effective.
So many times we read about members who have different tests and they all come back negative. The more clues and information you provide, the better chances in finding out what is wrong, The fact that your test results are negative does not mean that you are fine and without any concerns. Many times it takes several diagnostic tests and procedures to isolate a specific condition.
Here are some questions that you should answer:
- When did this first start?
. Year, Your age, etc
- Was it the result of an accident or trauma?
- Are there others in your family with similar medication conditions?
- What doctors have you seen? (Orthopedic, Neurosurgeon, Spine Specialist, etc)
. Which doctor did you start with? Ie Primary Care Physician
. Who are you currently seeing?
- What Conservative treatments have you had? Which ones?
. Physical Therapy
. Ultrasound / Tens unit
. Spinal Injections
. Massage Therapy
- What diagnostic tests have you had? And their results (MRI, CTScan, XRay, EMG, etc)
. Summarize the results, please do not post all details, we cannot analyze them
. How many different tests have you had over the years? Similar results?
- What medications are you currently using? (details, dosage, frequency, etc)
. Name of Medication
. How long have you been using this?
- Has surgery been discussed as an option? (If so, what kind)
- Is there any nerve pain/damage associated?
- What is your doctor’s action plan for treating you?
Providing answers to questions like this will give the member community here a better understanding
of your situation and make it easier to respond.
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There you will find much information that will
- Help you better utilize the Spine-Health system
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Please remember that no one at Spine-Health is a formally trained medical professional.
Everything that is posted here is based on personal experiences and perhaps additional research.
As such, no member is permitted to provide
- Analysis or interpretation of any diagnostic test (ie MRI, CTscan, Xray, etc)
- Medical advice of any kind
- Recommendations in terms of Medications, Treatments, Exercises, etc
What could be good for someone could spell disaster for another.
You should also consult your doctor to better understand your condition and the do’s and don’t’s.
It is very important that new members (or even seasoned members) provide others with details about their condition(s). It is virtually impossible to help another member when all the details we have areI’ve had this for years, it hurts, I cant move my shoulder – what could this be, what treatment should I get?
Diagnosing spinal problems can be very difficult. In many ways it’s like a game of clue. Especially, when the diagnostic tests come back negative – no trouble found! Then it’s up to the patient and the doctor to start digging deeper. The doctor is like a detective. They need clues to help them move along. So, you as the patient need to provide the doctor with all sorts of clues. That is like it is here. Without having information about a condition, its impossible for anyone here to try to help.Specific comments :Personal Opinion, not medical advice :
--- Ron DiLauro, Spine-Health System Moderator : 11/23/15 08:43 est