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I hope this isn’t a too much TMI bet here it goes....I’ve recently started dating a man several years older than me with a severe back injury that has caused him to completely loose his discs in about 5 of his lower vertebrae. We have not been intimate yet, partially due to his back issues (pain, some ED and lack of libedo) but also personal reasons as well. He is scheduled for fusion for these 5 discs in about 9 months. So I guess my question is for men or partners of men who are dealing with similar issues and how it relates to sex life, I’ve read a lot about individuals having issues but are there any success stories as well? Any advise for pre and post surgery? I really like this man a lot, I don’t want to hurt him if and when we are intimate or make him feel inadequate if there are issues. I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do as a partner to make him feel more comfortable both physically and emotionally?