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Mom passed away

gar0262ggar0262 Posts: 164
edited 06/11/2012 - 8:23 AM in Matters of the Heart
I know this if totally off topic, but just wanted to post to the friends that I have made here. We received a phone call on Tues. morning that our Mom had had a spell, and that they gave her maybe a couple of days to live. So Tues. night my husband and I made the trip from Tennessee to Iowa, which is a 12hr drive. I was on the way to the doctor that morning in regards to the follow up to the fever I had been dealing with for several days. So while at Drs. office we told them what was going on and asked about the fact of me just having had surgery 2 wks ago, and traveling. She told me as long as I alternated between sitting, laying down, and stopping often for me to walk, it would be okay. The majority of the trip I laid in the back seat stretched out. As soon as we got into town we went directly to the nursing home, and spent the whole day sitting with Mom. Although she was basically comatose, we spoke to her and just spent time with her. My twin sis, big brother and his girlfriend also made it in. My older sis did not make it in till tonight after Mom had already passed. I know I have not been keeping to drs. instructions for last couple of days, but Mom came first.
Thanks for listening to me rattle, but it is time to go to bed and try to get some sleep.


  • I hope that this poem can comfort you just a little.

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    The Rose Still Grows Beyond the Wall

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    Author: Unknown
  • Hiya Glor >:D< >:D<
    Just wanted to say i am sorry to hear about your loss :( . Just take it easy now and do not over do it. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Angie x >:D<
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  • are not off topic at all....you are in Matters of the Heart and so it is very appropriate. I am so sorry for your loss , I cannot even imagine what you must be going through. If there is anything that I can ever do for you then please just let me know....take care....Miki
  • Hi Glor,

    I'm very sorry for your loss. The bond between a mother and daughter is something that no words can ever describe. When our mothers leave us, it is unlike anything we have ever experienced and nothing can prepare us for. My mom left 10 years ago this month and I still think of her every day. I have one of the happiest pictures of her I could find and it sits on my desk. When I think of her I think of the good times and the good qualities, she was and is after all "mom".

    My best to you and your family,

  • Hi Glor,
    I am so sorry about your Mom but really glad you got to see her before she passed away. I am sure this was a difficult trip for you so soon after surgery. Even if she was not awake I am sure she knew you were with her and it gave her comfort.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I can only try to imagine what you are feeling right now as my mum is still alive. The only thing I can relate to your pain is how lost I've felt since my parents moved 1500 miles away, but I know that's hardly the same thing. I fully believe that when our loved ones die they are called home to be with our heavenly father. Your mom is smiling down on you and will be with you in every breath you take. I know that's little consolation but I hope you can take some comfort in that thought. We're here for you as you try to get through this very trying time, OK? Try to hang in there and give yourself a rest whenever you need it. The last thing you need right now is a flare up of the pain. Take care of you-if you don't you'll not be any good to anyone and right now your family needs you as much as you need them.

    Memory Eternal...
  • Gloria....Im sad you've lost your Mom. Today marks the third anniversary of my Mom's Memorial service...as she passed away on Sept 27. I was in so much pain that I couldn't even carry her ashes, but did fulfill one of her requests...that I sing at her service.
    Sending my prayers to you and yours for comfort and strength.

    Remember A Mother's Love lives on in our hearts forever...

  • Glor:

    I am deeply saddened at the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and yours.

  • glor- so sorry for your loss..my prayers are with you and your family...jade
  • Sorry to hear about the passing of your mother....I will say a prayer for her and your family...
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