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My husband

yasminayyasmina Posts: 164
edited 06/11/2012 - 7:24 AM in Matters of the Heart
is like a teenage boy with overactive hormones. We've been married for over 13 years, 2 kids, and he's all over me.

He is constantly petting me at (to me) inappropriate times - like in the car, while sitting in the kitchen, or any other time when someone else may walk in.

Is it me? I work all day, take care of 2 kids, try to keep the house in order while he does the outside work, am 45 yrs. old and had L3-5 fusion a year ago, with very little interest in sex.

I don't deny him, and participate fully when we "play", but he seems to have an almost obsessive need to paw at me.



  • image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> What a bugger! My husband is like that too. Charry
    DDD of lumbar spine with sciatica to left hip,leg and foot. L4-L5 posterior disc bulge with prominent facets, L5-S1 prominent facets with a posterior osteocartilaginous bar. Mild bilateral foraminal narrowing c-spine c4-c7 RN
  • :?? I thought it would wear off,especially when I gained weight,but nope.Now that I've lost a few it isn't changing though..and is about the same.Sometimes I wonder if he was neglected as a child(just kidding).I love his parents,but he was one of four and maybe he needed more attention.Just my thinking on it... :)

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  • cuz mu hubby is the same way. In one hand, Iam glad he still feels this way toward me after 19 years on the other I feel bad because of my pain most days Iam not "in the mood." But, I do my best to not deny him, he is such a wonderful husand and father he deserves what he wants...
    Just to let ya know my greatgrand parents were 96 and 94 when they passed away but my grandma said not a year before they passed he acted this way towards ggma, and she'd even had walked in on them on accident, so sounds like the fun never stops. :))(
  • I was thinking there was hope......... :O :O
  • That's so sweet. I would worry if I wasn't bugged. I was covered with chickenpox and I still wasn't left alone :$
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  • Wow, if he thought I was sexy with chicken pox, imagine how much more now. :D

    I think he had it already. A few years later, I had shingles - :X HUBBA, HUBBA
  • :) almost 30 years now and there is still desire hanging around our home. <:P makes everyday not only fun, but interesting as well. :X lot's of ways to handle desire besides just the "same old thing!" =)) keep's me guessing! Jenny :)
  • I hear ya 8>
  • =)) =)) =)) =)) =)) =)) =))
    sorry had to laugh and let it out, its only 5am and everyone is sleeping of course except me 8} and my soma kicks tush with no food.

    man oh man don't even look at me while im in pain or you will see image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" /> image:)" alt=">:)" height="20" />

    i have a bro in law that is like this. ok not toward me :jawdrop: :D
    his wife can be as sick as a horse and if he don't have her OMG he goes nuts whats up with that. #o #o

    i tell hub go get on the computer and take a shower =)) =)) =)) =))

    if he can see in my face im not in a good mood/sore etc. he knows better i just get a hug >:D< >:D< >:D< >:D<
    1 night puts me down for 2 days ok TMI :* :*
    plus i have more issues then back so mabye that is why he is so sweet. :X :X
    i also told him hey you want to screw around you best bring home alot of money for your services so i can shop =)) =)) =)) =)) =)) <:P <:P <:P <br />no seriously that is only a joke 8} ;) ;)
  • You are a hoot! :)

    Honestly, I think I am more worried about the not being able to handle that sort of activity than my husband is. That is a vital part of stress relief for me.

    One Love,

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