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Was told not to be a drama queen on here!!!OMG

AnonymousUserAAnonymousUser Posts: 49,578
edited 06/11/2012 - 7:25 AM in New Member Introductions
Going over problems and issues on here, alot of people are great and kewl...however had someone named dingbat privately message me on here and said im being a drama queen!
To anyone who has or hasnt read, ive had problems with a failed fusion and multiple screws breaking..."they are gonna be removed the 7th of Jan." Bad nursing care..just about everything bad including pain management.
Just still shocked this person felt the need to judge and try and make me feel bad :''( Almost wanna say wish they could walk a mile in my shoues...however, i dont think ide wish that on anyone!
Just very, very sad.... :<


  • That just wasn't right. Feel free to vent all you want. That's what we're here for. I hope you get to feeling better and have a nicer weekend.
  • There are too many real problems and issues you are dealing with to let this person bring you down-although I know it hurts your feelings-but it won't cause any real pain if you don't let it.

    Tell it like it is-we need to know that back pain and surgery is not always a piece a cake. Hope you will have a good weekend.
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  • with a username like dingbat, well...

    That is so wrong when a someone has the audacity to stoop to that level when we often have enough problems in real life.This is a great site and I would say just let it go and not let it get to you.Some people just have to stir the pot sometimes.

    I hope your have a great holiday season and some pain free days ahead!!!
  • While I feel that this person should not have called you names, I also feel that you should let it roll right off of your back. You know who and what you are. You are love and you are loved. :X I think that dingbat might have the need to feel loved as well and so searched for attention in the only way they know how. Everyone has different means of coping physically and emotionally. So next time someone tries to bring you down just quack. :)

    One Love,

  • the simple mind of one person ruin your day. Just let it roll right off like water on a ducks back. We are here to listen and support each other no matter how bad of a day or week for that matter that you have had. Remember, theres usually one in every crowd but the majority of this crowd are good people that like to try and upbuild each other. Hope you have a good day.
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  • I've always had great chats with you and I can't beleive someone would say that. We are on here because we are seeking people who understand how we feel because they are going through the same thing. I have seen some offensive stuff on here but I just ignore it and mostly everyone is decent. I am sorry that your feelings got hurt, but cheer up Honey and hold your head up high. >:D<
  • Is supposed to be all about support. Not others name calling and making people feel bad. If anyone does not like what or the way that you are posting, nobody is forcing them to read it or to respond to you. If you do or say anything that is not allowed on this forum the mods will let you know. Do what I have had to do quite often over the past year, ignore people that don't have anything good to say. They surely can't add anything to your life.
  • What a strange thing to say to someone on a pain message
    board. It never ceases to amaze me though what people
    will say and do. I hope you feel better. And I really
    can be dramatic, when I'm trying to explain how I feel!
    I have also noticed since I've gotten worse, quit working and am waiting for surgery, my emotions are on edge and I get my feelings hurt easily - I hope you feel better, try to forget it is what I would do - I still think that was a strange thing to say to someone in pain
  • Just checked private message and someone now wrote me saying im being talked about somewhere else on here by higher members...where i cant see it! UGH, just nonscence!Why cant certain people take a flying F#%^ off??? Reall is kind of disturbing really... I know i cry and complain alot...gawd...they think im bad here they should meet me in person! LOL :? :O =)) See...somehow i always get mean people...in real life or cyber! :S Yes, everyone for the most part is awesome... Ming included! Lol...just...wow im speechless now! For a change!!!
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