Ok... Here is my problem:
I am having two level spinal fusion on 12/19. My mom is coming from Florida to take care of me.
My boyfriend's birthday is the 28th of December and he wants to have his brother and some friends come up to visit him, I suggested that I would not be in the mood 9 days after surgery for company and he seems to think that I will be fine and I am making a bigger deal of this than I need to.
Am I bending this out of proportion that I would not be up to having company 9 days after a two level fusion?
He seems to think I will be up doing things and sees no reason why I am having my mother come up to stay with us to help out.
How can I help him to understand that this is serious surgery?