Many of you already know me as Hank, I'm a long time member who hasn't been on here in awhile. My question is why is it that when my back problems started getting serious my now ex-fieance is real distant. She accuses me of lieing about my back and says I don't talk enough. I've tried explaing the stress of this and she wants her space and is now moving out. I am scared to death that we are totally through which is only making matters worse with stress. I hate to say this but it is sending me into a terriable tail spin. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.