How do I leave my husband?? I need to leave, even though this is MY house because he has said he would fight me for it, plus I cannot afford it and it is falling apart. He knows I want to leave, but he refuses to believe it. He thinks he can talk me into staying, but I just don't want to anymore. I know he will fight for my kids, and probably win, but I just have to believe that they will be better off not seeing us fight ALL the TIME! I just don't know how to do this. And I have no money, just my credit cards. Should I file for divorce Now? or wait until I leave? What am I gonna do about my back?? It still needs daily dressing changes, and he's been doing them, but once I leave what will I do? Should I wait to leave just because of that?? It sounds pretty silly to me!! I just don't know how to do this, but I know I definatley need to.