This is a huge problem for me. Any time I try to tell my husband what I am feeling he comes right back with his complaints. If I say my neck hurts he tells me his shoulder still hurts from seven years ago. If I say my back hurts he tells me his whole body hurts.
This is a form of score keeping. I know it and my response is to not tell him anything. Problem is he never knows if I'm having a good day or bad day and I think he expects that I can do everything I did before the accident. It's also extremely frustrating because it leaves me with no one to talk to.
I'm wondering if this happens to anyone else? And how do you handle this?