My family is great when it comes to my back issues and not be able to do things. They help me so much without a single complaint. Lately Ive oticed that when I start talking about my feelings and how depressed I am everyone leaves the room. No one wants to talk about the fact that moms depressed, if we ignore it maybe it will go away.Ive talked to my hubby about it and he's one of those who say this is what life has given you and you need to deal with it. He's very supportive in everything else except this area. I have talked to him about meds,therapy or support group and he is against it. He is afraid that the med will change my personality. He says that if I need to talk he is there for me but when I do I get the "you'll be alright" or "it will pass", he's definately a tuff love person. He says that he doesn't care that he has to do everything, hes thankful that I am alive and if he doesnt care than why should I. We've had this discussion so many times I sound like a broken record.Do I be put on an act of being happy for the sake of everyone else?How do I deal with this?