Although this is actually a long story, I'll try to shorten it with just most important details. My mom recently celebrated her 90th birthday. My birthday is on the same day as her birthday. My brother decided to arrange and host a surprise birthday party for her. I was never told about this party until after it had taken place. Other family members who were invited also kept it secret from me. My cousin said the reason was probably because the party was held at a house that was definitely not disabled accessible; obviously chosen by him for that very reason. am very hurt and upset that my brother would do this; he knows full well the extent of my disabilities. This was his purpose to exclude me from this family celebration. I've been crying a lot over this obvious snub.