hi. thank you in advance for any advice.
i recently began seeing someone with spinal stenosis. the exact details of his injuries i dont fully understand. we are both in the 35-45 range. he has been dealing with his injuries and its side affects for years. the side affects include bowel issues. ive finally convinced him i'm unlikely to be "grossed out" by the issues. i feel this was a major victory.
i know that as i don't suffer from the ailments i will need to plan and make adjustments to "normal" activities. i am probably more okay with this than he is. but i like him and think getting to know him better is worth it. i applaud his independence and appreciate the strength in that...however as forthright with each other as we try to be, he won't ask or tell me what could help.
so maybe you can give suggestions to make things easier without going to far.
here is what i know....
lower spinal injury
numbness and tingle fires in feet
physically as fit as possible.....works out and walks
on a pain management regimen ( altered w/in our time of knowing)
can drive but ........ distance vs pain
i live 2.5 hours away from him. when he comes to see me i know to plan some (fetal position) decompression time. i use this as catch up time. but, is there anything i can unobtrusively do to help him? i don't want to treat him as a "patient". if that makes any sense.
any other advice (i.e furniture placement, items to have on hand) or signs to look for when hes hiding pain, etc.
hopefully this makes sense.... thanks for any advice.****************************************************************************************************** welcome to spine-health
one of the most important things that members can do is to provide the rest of the community with as much information about themselves as possible. it is so very difficult for anyone to respond when we do not have enough information to go on. this is not meant to indicate that you are doing anything wrong or violated any rule, we are just trying to be pro-active and get the information upfront so that people can start responding and your thread is more effective.
so many times we read about members who have different tests and they all come back negative. the more clues and information you provide, the better chances in finding out what is wrong, the fact that your test results are negative does not mean that you are fine and without any concerns. many times it takes several diagnostic tests and procedures to isolate a specific condition.
here are some questions that you should answer:
- - when did this first start? . year, your age, etc
- was it the result of an accident or trauma?
- are there others in your family with similar medication conditions?
- what doctors have you seen? (orthopedic, neurosurgeon, spine specialist, etc)
- . which doctor did you start with? ie primary care physician . who are you currently seeing?
- what conservative treatments have you had? which ones?
- . physical therapy . ultrasound / tens unit . spinal injections . acupuncture . massage therapy
- what diagnostic tests have you had? and their results (mri, ctscan, xray, emg, etc)
- . summarize the results, please do not post all details, we cannot analyze them . how many different tests have you had over the years? similar results?
- what medications are you currently using? (details, dosage, frequency, etc)
- . name of medication . how long have you been using this? . results
- has surgery been discussed as an option? (if so, what kind)
- is there any nerve pain/damage associated?
- what is your doctor’s action plan for treating you?
providing answers to questions like this will give the member community here a better understanding
of your situation and make it easier to respond.
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it is very important that new members (or even seasoned members) provide others with details about their condition(s). it is virtually impossible to help another member when all the details we have arei’ve had this for years, it hurts, i cant move my shoulder – what could this be, what treatment should i get?
diagnosing spinal problems can be very difficult. in many ways it’s like a game of clue. especially, when the diagnostic tests come back negative – no trouble found! then it’s up to the patient and the doctor to start digging deeper. the doctor is like a detective. they need clues to help them move along. so, you as the patient need to provide the doctor with all sorts of clues. that is like it is here. without having information about a condition, its impossible for anyone here to try to help.specific comments :personal opinion, not medical advice :
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