i don't have a kidney infection but that is exactly the way my pain feels. i've had this on and off for a year and last night was the worst! i am at my wits end:( i'm here mainly because i don't know what to "call this", and for some advice. i get it suddenly and it happens only on my left side. when this first happened, i thought i had a kidney infection and would get throbs of pain in my lower left side right behind my kidneys (which is why i thought it was that at first). this would go on for a day or 2 and i layed in bed with a heating pad, praying it would go away. it didn't until my dh rubbed the area and within 24 hours it was gone, pinched nerve?? i've had pinched nerves in other parts of my body but those were sharp and never went away, this is a dull ache that pulses off and on and the only relief i get is once the area has been rubbed out. back to yesterday...for a day before it got very bad, i had symptoms it was coming on so i rubbed the usual spot with tennis balls i keep around for when no one is home to help. it was ok and bearable but wasn't going away, it wasn't until later as i was feeling around that i realized i was rubbing the wrong area, it was lower than usual, almost at the top of my left buttox cheek. sure enough as soon as he started rubbing it that screaming pain i have to endure sunk in, and i screamed alright!! in order for these situations to get better they have to be rubbed out or there's no relief and the feeling of a kidney infection stays and gets worse. the pain when rubbed is like no other but i know i have to bare it because it goes no where if i don't. i suppose it's like a muscular knot? he must press hard, my orders, in order for it to work itself out, i can usually handle 3-4 minutes of screaming into my pillow before i tell him no more. i am then left so exhausted, sometimes i get pins and needles as he's doing it in other parts of my body but that could be from the pain. the pain is so severe that i shake violently and then something is released into my body because i must sleep afterwards, literally as i'm moaning. we do apply ice/heat right away, and i take 400 mg ibuprofin (flexeril and others do nothing for pain, again this has to be rubbed out or else it will not go away). the throbbing is usually gone afterwards and i am left with what feels like severe bruising, but he has to press that hard, again because it won't go away if he doesn't. after 2-3 days i am back to normal. what can this be?! i know i get it from either over or under use, so i tend to be careful, but sometimes you just don't realize until it's too late. right now the throb is gone (yahhhh!!!) but my back feels like it got into a horrible fight and lost:( i'm so sick and tired of this!!! i think because i don't know what "name" to give it so that i can get "proper" relief/treatment. it's not a backache or anything like that so it's difficult to get information about it because of my description. i hope someone out there reading this says i know exactly what you're going through and here's what you do...any help please! btw i am 43, female.******************************************************************** welcome to spine-health
it would be very helpful if you could provide us with more details. so many times we read about members who have different tests and they all come back negative. the more clues and information you provide, the better chances in finding out what is wrong,
here are some questions that you should answer:
- - when did this first start?- was it the result of an accident or trauma?- what doctors have you seen? (orthopedic, neurosurgeon, spine specialist, etc)- what conservative treatments have you had? which ones?- what diagnostic tests have you had? and their results (mri, ctscan, xray, emg, etc)- what medications are you currently using? (details, dosage, frequency, etc)- has surgery been discussed as an option? (if so, what kind)- is there any nerve pain/damage associated?- what is your doctor’s action plan for treating you?
providing answers to questions like this will give the member community here a better understanding
of your situation and make it easier to respond.
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it is very important that new members (or even seasoned members) provide others with details about their condition(s). it is virtually impossible to help another member when all the details we have arei’ve had this for years, it hurts, i cant move my shoulder – what could this be, what treatment should i get?
diagnosing spinal problems can be very difficult. in many ways its like a game of clue. especially, when the diagnostic tests come back negative – no trouble found! then its up to the patient and the doctor to start digging deeper. the doctor is like a detective. they need clues to help them move along. so, you as the patient need to provide the doctor with all sorts of clues. that is like it is here. without having information about a condition, its impossible for anyone here to try to help.specific comments :personal opinion, not medical advice :
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