First let me tell you I have been with my husband for over 4 years and I love him very much. He is the one with chronic back pain 24/7 hours a day. About 7 years ago he got ran over doing road work,He broke his spine in 3 places, and had extensive nerve damage. They tried to fix L3 and L4 but the doctor told him that he had degentative disc disease. He also a broke sacrum and S1 messed up. Believe it or not he still works he refuses not to. He takes extensive medications. I mostly worry about our future because I'm very afraid in 15 years that he will be a wheel chair, or even worse. :S One big thing is our sex life has def suffered from his back problems.Another big problem is that most of the time he hates it when I touch him because of all the nerve damage he says that it feels like needles going up him.My first question is how do we boost up our sex life with someone that has a very bad back? My second question is how do you deal with the problems of everyday marriage and on top of having back problems?