Last week I had to travel 4 hours to see my dad (I'm 60 and he's 82) to convince him he needed to accept my help. To tell him he can't drive anymore and he can't live by himself anymore. Very tough trip physically and emotionally. Then, when I got back home, my husband told me he has prostate cancer. And yesterday I had to make the call and take my precious "benji" dog, an old friend of 14 years, to be "put to sleep."
How on earth, in chronic pain anyway, do I deal with this. Please, God. Please. Where do I start?