I need help.....I'm deeply in love with a man who has chronic hip and back pain, and has recently been suffering from debilitating headaches. We have, of course, a non-existent sex life and I'm trying very, very hard to establish an intimate connection with him, but he rejects me constantly. I literally do not know what to do, or how to get rid of the shameful selfish, petty feelings of anger and frustration I have towards him (I know it's wrong, but I am SO hurt by his rejection).....please, ANY and ALL advice would be incredibly appreciated! !!