Hello All! I am in need of any opinions/advice/encouragement. This may be lengthy but I feel it is necessary to know the whole story/series of events. My boyfriend is the injured one and I have been there to help in every way I can. Certain things I wish we would have done differently (been smarter about) but you live and you learn, unfortunately its been a pretty rough year. We are both pretty young (24/25)and have been lucky enough to have never dealt with a serious medical issue until now. So, if you are kind enough to take some time to read this and comment, I greatly appreciate it.
He severely herniated his disc (lower back) a year ago, there were other complications with surrounding muscles. The injury is from lifting/packing heavy amplifiers into boxes at work, he initially did not know how severe his injury was (he has a high pain tolerance, thought he just threw out his back), we waited a month or so before going to a doctor and during that time he continued to work which most likely made it worse. He also saw a chiropractor who said he had degenerative disc disease, had one adjustment which also could have made it worse.
After seeing an orthopedic doctor and having an MRI to confirm the disc herniation he was referred to do PT, he went 3 times a week for about 4 months till workers comp said he had reached his maximum number of visits for a year. He continued to do everything he could at home. About the time he had to stop PT he had a cortisone injection which helped for a week….maybe. He has not taken any prescription pain killers, just ibuprofen as needed and Zyflamend whole body (supplement with turmeric, ginger, etc to help with the inflammation). The pain had been fluctuating, some good weeks, some bad.
Now it's about a year later, bad weeks have taken over and we really need to consider surgery (i think). We had hoped for signs of improvement with the conservative approach but the follow up MRI showed that the herniation has gotten worse. We want to try everything we can to not resort to surgery. I have read all sorts of things online, some say it is possible for it to heal on it's own with conservative methods in a few months but this is not the case for him. We do not want to wait too long and risk permanent damage but there is also risk in surgery and it's no guarantee. He has had extreme anxiety his whole life and this is not an easy decision. He can walk 2 miles, of course he has chronic pain and some sciatica but if he can be somewhat active is holding off on surgery a good/okay option? I feel like we waited too long to see a doctor which could have prevented it from being so severe so I do not want to make the same mistake by waiting too long to have him get surgery! There are so many factors, another thing is that he does not get good rest and sleep is a big part of the healing process. We are getting a second opinion in the upcoming month but here are some things I'd appreciate some feedback on….
Any advice on different conservative methods to try?
How long is too long to wait to get surgery? (i feel some people get surgery right away because they need to get better quick, where we are willing to wait it out and see if it can be avoided)
Any personal experiences with having surgery or a long-term conservative recovery?
So confused/unsure of what to do….this has increased his anxiety levels, he has been depressed and I'm pretty sure he has PTSD(having nightmares of botched surgery). ****************************************************************************************************** Welcome to Spine-Health
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