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My how life changes

AnonymousUserAAnonymousUser Posts: 49,578
edited 06/11/2012 - 7:23 AM in Matters of the Heart
I just needed to take a moment out of my day to ask if anyone feels like their life is constantly on a downward spiral.I guess mine started in 1998 went from a large salary to being on disablilty,next money problems and i mean real problems,i often wonder if i would have not worked as hard as i did to get where i was before i hurt my back would life have been better.Next wife left took kids,i dont understand still why people marry for money but i think thats what happened.When kids were gone i got very depressed and wondered how i would go on,im not a everyother wknd dad,where i come from family is ur life.Next 2 yrs was the ugliest divorce i believe anyone could have,now i live daily in pain but i do have custody of one of my kids thank God but i really wish i had them both.How do people come back after all this,my ex was remarried bf ink dried on divorce papers but i on the other hand am terrified of women now due to the situation i was in .

Sorry i rambled so long i just had to let this out.


  • dilaurodilauro ConnecticutPosts: 11,349
    You are not alone. Many others have gone through far more devastating things then you have, so many others have not experienced what you have and some are just beginning to see all of this.

    There is no magic word or action to correct this. To put it bluntly, you just have to grab hold of your trousers and Pull yourself UP.

    Looking at others and see what they have been through can also help. Reading inspirational stories is so good. When you see what others have done, how down they were and how they got themselves out of it.

    Many people can do this alone, and there are many others that need the help of a professional.
    Ron DiLauro Veritas-Health Forums Manager
    I am not a medical professional. I comment on personal experiences
    You can email me at: rdilauro@veritashealth.com
  • :) hi and welcome to the forum! :H you have lost alot indeed and as you look over what has happened perhaps you will see the reasons life took you on that route. :O we all have different journeys! you don't say how your health is now. are you in pain? are you still on disability? these are questions you may still be dealing with. good luck and i hope you find some peace of mind. Jenny :)
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